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David |  | Person with diabetesBorn in Fiji Islands in 1934. Diagnosed Type 2 in Birmingham in 1980
Overview: David`s father was a Fijian doctor whose work took him all round the Fiji islands. David himself managed a small post office before coming to England in 1959. His wife and baby son joined him later and they had six more children. He had converted from Methodism to his wife`s Catholicism and his children attended Catholic schools in Birmingham. He worked long hours to support them, as a telecommunications engineer, until he retired at the age of 60. He used to dream of returning to Fiji but now feels he couldn`t leave his children and grandchildren. | [View Full Interview] |
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Tell me about your background.
We come from Fiji islands. It‘s
a wonderful place, very healthy place, and I‘ve had a very healthy life during
my childhood. The weather‘s very nice, the people are very friendly, and
it‘s a wonderful place; in fact, it is a paradise.
What did your parents do?
My father was a doctor. He was
practising in a small district, and he was moving from place to place, because,
as he was employed by the Fiji
government, he had to sort of travel all around Fiji,
and sometimes travel around islands as well; remote islands.
Was he what we would call a GP?
That is true. He is known as
General Practitioner, yes.
Did your mother do any paid work?
No, my mother has been always
doing domestic duties. She has led a very healthy life as well, because when
she was very young she used to work in the farms; it’s from working in farms.
And she came from a poor background, where she had to work for her living.
Did you have any brothers and
sisters?
Yes, I have a sister. She used
to be in medical field as well - she was a staff nurse in a hospital. She,
at the moment, lives in Melbourne,
Australia.
What kind of education did you
have in Fiji?
It was wonderful education.
We used to have only secondary education. To get a university degree we had
to travel to either Australia
or New Zealand.
But the education was of a fairly high standard, because it was a Crown Colony,
and English happened to be compulsory in schools. So, the education was of
a very high standard, and we did learn quite a bit in our young days, yes.
At what age did you leave school?
I left school at the age of sixteen,
from a secondary school.
And what did you do?
After that, I worked for public
works department on the clerical side for about two years. And then, during
these two years, we were not quite settled in Fiji,
because we heard of the wonderful life abroad, so we just wanted to travel,
so we travelled to UK
then.
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And how old were you then?
I was only twenty four then,
when I arrived to this country. And I came along with two friends; there
was three of us altogether.
How did you find it when you
first arrived?
We found it fairly exciting.
We have never experienced busy life and such an interesting life before, so
it was quite interesting, yes. Yes, something very exciting happened. When
we were in London, arrived from Liverpool... from Southampton,
rather - sorry - we sat at the train station not knowing what to do and where
to go. And then we started talking to some people who used to sort of spend
nights in the railway station, and one of them said "why don‘t you go
to Birmingham? There‘s plenty of
work there and you‘ll find place to live there, and you should be able to
live there happily". So, the next morning, we got the train and we came
over to Birmingham. Now, Birmingham,
at that time, had a lot of industries and we could find job anywhere at all,
so we started looking round for jobs. And I read an article in the newspaper,
Birmingham Mail, about British Telecoms engineers required, so I applied there.
And since it was, in those days, a civil service job, they wrote back to all
my employers in Fiji
asking them for references before they could take me on. So, I had to wait
for approximately seven weeks before I started work, when they had all the
replies from my old bosses. Then they called me in and recruited me, and...
Did you have any qualification
to work for British Telecom?
Yes, I had secondary education,
which they accepted. And also, when I started working for British Telecoms,
I started taking telecommunications course in Matthew
Boulton Technical School.
And I was there for quite a few years, until the age of forty, really, I was
still studying as part time, still a student.
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How did Birmingham compare with what you described as a paradise in Fiji?
Yes, it was quite a difference
in the beginning. In fact, we missed Fiji
so much that we felt like going back the following year! But fortunately
we stopped on. Now, Fiji,
in comparison to Birmingham: Fiji‘s a paradise, and it‘s a multicultural, multi-religious
country, and harmony prevails there all the time; there wasn‘t any problem
at all. There‘s enough jobs to keep the locals employed, and sugar cane happened
to be the most important industry there. We used to export sugar to Australia
and New Zealand.
Also, we used to have banana plantation, which was exported to New
Zealand, and fishing industry was most important, because
we used to just have fishes whenever we wanted to, really. All it meant was
going out in the sea and fishing. And we had all sorts of fresh food, and
the atmosphere was very clean, and the life was very healthy there, and I
led a very healthy life there. I didn‘t have any complaints; no problems
at all with health.
And what was your health like
when you moved to Birmingham?
I was feeling all right, until
bit later on in life. In fact, I led a fairly healthy life here as well,
until a bit later on in my years. My mother was diagnosed as diabetic about
ten years before me, and my father was already a diabetic, so we suffered
in this field quite a lot, really, family wise.
Were they insulin dependant or
were they on diet?
No, my father was insulin dependant,
and my mother, later on in her life when she was about seventy-odd, went onto
insulin as well. She had other health problems as well: she had angina and
she had arthritis of spine, and she didn‘t enjoy a very healthy life in her
later life.
You say you felt nostalgic for
Fiji.
Why didn‘t you go back?
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Yes, I would have loved to go back, really, in fact. But at the time, we
couldn‘t afford to go back, because it was so expensive to come here, and
we thought "perhaps, all right, we‘ll stop here for a while and then
go back". But meanwhile, my wife was very interested in coming across.
I was married there, and so I called my wife after about eighteen months on
my own. And when she joined me, of course, life was much more easier, and
we got used to the way of life in this country.
Did you have any problems finding
suitable accommodation?
Yes, we did have a lot of problems
finding accommodation. We lived with an Asian family for roughly one year,
and then I applied for a grant to buy a house. I was... in those days the
mortgage was given by the council, so we applied to and got a mortgage, and
we had a first house in Clifton
Road, Birmingham.
Did you have any children before
your wife came over here?
Yes, my son was born in Fiji
in 1958. He was just one and a half years when he arrived here, and he arrived
in 1962 when the weather was really bad, really; the winter was really bad.
There was quite a few feet of snow, and I had to go and pick them from Tilbury.
The services were all suspended, and the only service that was going was train
service, so we had a very hard time getting here to Birmingham,
where I used to live.
But he was one and a half years
when you left to come to England?
Yes, he was one and a half years
old then.
Was that quite common for men
from Fiji
to leave wife and child behind and go in search for work?
Well, it was just excitement.
We were living on a small island and we thought perhaps life would be much
more interesting abroad. A lot of people from Fiji were not allowed to move away from Fiji. They could
go for a trip and pay a trip to wherever they wanted to, but immigrating was
forbidden in those times. However, we got away with it, and we came and lived
here. And restrictions were slacking up a little bit in those days.
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So what was the date that you came to England?
The actual date I can‘t remember,
but it was in September 1959 I arrived in this country. And since then, I‘ve
worked for British Telecoms all my life, and retired at the age of sixty.
Tell me about your work at British
Telecom.
It was very interesting work.
I used to work every day of the week, and never missed any work. And even
in the weekends, if there was overtime going, I‘d go and do it, overtime.
And the people were very friendly, they accepted me very well, and the work
was very interesting. I did work for the Post Office in Fiji Islands. I used
to manage a small Post Office looking after two linesmen, who used to maintain
the lines, and I also I used to look after the switchboard and the postal
side as well.
Of course, when you joined British
Telecom, it wasn‘t called British Telecom, was it?
It was called GPO in those days,
yes, and, as I say, it was a civil service job, so we had to be on our best
behaviour!
A white collar office job?
This was engineering work, so
it involved most of the day outside, working out in all sorts of weather.
We were doing line maintenance and provision of lines and provision of equipment,
and on the whole it made it very interesting work, and a very good firm to
work for.
You said that you took any overtime
that was going. Were you in particular need of money?
Yes, I was desperately in need
of money, because, at the time, in the very beginning, I wanted to call my
wife along, and in those days the fares were not too expensive, but it was
difficult to save money because the pay was very less. In fact, I was getting
only about seven pounds and sixty pence a week, and so it was difficult to
save money. Yes, we had to work overtime to keep our family going, because
the family number increased from one to two, and then from two to four, and
then from four to seven. So, I had to carry on working overtime to keep them
in education, and to keep them at home, and to provide them with clothing
and food, and the rest of the things required by the children.
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Did you come from a Catholic background?
I came from a Methodist background
- my father was a Methodist and we were practising Methodists. But when we
arrived in UK, my wife was already a practising Catholic in
Fiji,
and so she persuaded me to join the Catholic religion, so we did join the
Catholic religion. We had a lot of advantages by being a Catholic, and the
children had a good education in Catholic school, and the people were very
friendly. And on the whole, it was very interesting life we lead.
And how did your diagnosis of
diabetes come about?
Yes, it was very strange way
it came about, because I went to visit a friend in London, who was a diabetic, and I said to him "what
are your symptoms for diabetes?". And he explained me, he gave me all
the symptoms that he was going through. I said to him "well, I think
I‘m diabetic as well, now, because I‘ve got the same symptoms as you have".
And so I came back and we made an appointment with the doctor, and when I
went to see him, I said to him "I think I‘m diabetic". He says
"how do you know?", and then I told him that I had the symptoms
of a diabetic, and so he says "we‘ll soon find out". And he tested
my water, and came back and says "yes, you are diabetic", and so
he referred me to the General
Hospital to be treated by Dr Wright. That was in
1980.
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And what were your symptoms that led you to believe you‘d got diabetes?
Yes, I used to feel very thirsty
and kept on running to toilet all times of the night. And also, I felt very
idle, and I didn‘t feel like doing much work around the house. And it was
very difficult for me to do any work around the house, because I just didn‘t
feel like, and I felt as if I didn‘t have much energy in the body left. And
also, my eyesight was being affected - I was having difficulty seeing things,
and...
And how did Dr Wright treat you
at the General Hospital?
Dr Wright treat me very well.
In fact, he accepted me, and told me that if I behaved myself with my diet,
I could lead a normal life for a long time. So, in the beginning, he put
me on diet-only treatment.
Can you remember what the diet
was in 1980?
Yes, he recommended a lot of
vegetables, salads, healthy wholemeal bread, and if you were to eat rice it
was to be brown rice, plenty of fish, and white meat and white fish, and natural
soups. And not so much of restricted food, like biscuits and things like
that - he told us not to have any of those. And that diet worked for me very
well.
It sounds quite like the diet
you referred to in Fiji that you grew up with. Is that right?
Yes, mostly fish - we used to
go for fish most of the time, and seafood was our favourite food and we went
for it very well. So, I did very well with diet foods for quite a while.
I used to take some cabbages, raw cabbages to work and eat it, and my friends
would say "how can you eat that raw cabbage?", and I used to say
"well, it‘s part of my diet, I‘m afraid". And I survived very well
with the diet for quite a long time.
But after the fresh diet that
you had in Fiji, what had
your diet been like in Birmingham
before you got diabetes?
We were eating all sorts of things,
especially chips and sausages and bacon, and a lot of meat and a lot of sugary
things, because we never used to get all those things in Fiji - some of the
wonderful cakes and biscuits and all sorts of variety. And so we went really
mad at eating the restricted food.
So, did you find it hard to change
from that sugary diet to the diet that Dr Wright recommended?
Yes, it was very difficult in
the beginning. I had to sacrifice quite a bit, and I used to long for sugar,
sugary things. But I avoided it and it paid dividends, because I was on diet
for quite a long time.
Did your wife do most of the
food preparation?
Yes, my wife did most of the
food preparation, and for my lunch at work I used to just take some
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salad and some brown bread, a boiled egg or just a slice of ham; but very
light lunch.
Did your wife find it hard to
adjust the cooking and food preparation to your needs?
Yes, she did find it very difficult
in the beginning, because we had children and children wanted chips and sausages
and other things. And then she had to prepare separate food for me, boiled
food and salad basically, which the children didn‘t appreciate.
Given that both your parents
had diabetes, did you expect to get it?
Yes, it was told by Dr Wright
that "this is a hereditary disease and I‘m not surprised that you have
it in fact, because your parents had it". The only one who has survived
in my family is my sister, at the moment. She is still non-diabetic at the
age of about eighty four.
Were you worried that your children
might get it?
Yes, this is my greatest worry.
I keep on preaching to my children "whatever you do, make sure you stick
to your proper diet, and don‘t go mad at eating all sorts of things",
because we‘ve been diabetic - my wife‘s diabetic now, I‘m diabetic - and they‘re
most likely to get it. But if they try and avoid it, they might get away
with it.
Did you try to change the diet
for the whole family when you were diagnosed with diabetes?
Yes, in the beginning my wife
slowly tried to change the diet, and she, towards the end, she managed to
change some of the diet. We got rid of chips and sausages and… or only once
a week or maybe twice a week. But we started sort of giving them more healthy
sandwiches, and she did try and change the diet for the children as well.
How long did you manage on diet
alone?
I managed for ten years, from
1980 to 1990. And, in fact, it took a lot of effort to sort of try and keep
up to this diet.
When were the difficult times?
It was mostly during festive
seasons, like Christmas, Easter and birthdays, when we couldn‘t resist but
have a little bit of a taste of cake; birthday cake or Christmas cake. And
Easter time, we used to have some sweets - just a little bit, to see if we
can manage it.
Did you notice any difference
in your health, how you were feeling, if you did break your diet?
Yes, the sugar level would go
up and the symptoms would come back again, especially being so unenergetic
and just lazing around, didn‘t feel like doing much. And feeling thirsty,
kept on drinking - and even to that, we have to drink water only and tea without
sugar. So, it has been very difficult, really, to adjust and to keep up to
the diet.
When you were first diagnosed,
did Dr Wright advise that you should keep monitoring your sugar levels?
Yes, he gave us a chart to fill
in, and we had to do that every morning - check the sugar level in the water.
And we kept a constant check throughout the treatment.
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me about changing onto tablets.
Dr Wright recommended me to go
onto tablets in 1990, and I kept on to the tablets from 1990 until I went
onto insulin on the sixteenth of June 2002.
What was it like being on tablets?
Since I was with Dr Wright, who
was experimenting all sorts of tablets on trial basis, we were on various
types of tablets to see what effect it had, and he used the best tablets recommended
then for us. There were quite a few different types, which I can‘t remember
now. But I remember going from one tablet to another and so on, because that
was Dr Wright‘s job, really, is to practise all sorts of medication on people,
and to see which was the most effective one for the individual.
Now you were no longer controlling
your diabetes by diet alone, did you feel a greater freedom to break the strict
diet or not?
Yes, I think I feel a greater
freedom now, because at the moment I can decide on how much insulin to take.
But on tablets - we‘ll get onto
insulin in a minute - but did you feel a greater freedom when you moved onto
tablets?
Yes, I did; I did feel a greater
freedom moving onto tablets. It was very interesting, really, to use different
types of medication and how it affected one, especially myself. When I felt
better, I told Dr Wright that I was feeling better with such and such tablet,
and then he‘ll recommend me that one for some time. And thus we carried on
on tablets.
Would you have liked to go on
on diet alone?
I would have loved to stay on
diet alone, but since… I suppose it may have been due to my fault as well,
because we used to drift away from the proper diet, and thus it led to tablets
and then eventually to insulin.
Do you think it was all your
fault?
Well, I suppose the level of
insulin provided by the pancreas wasn‘t enough, so it slowly sort of released
less and less, and as it released less and less insulin in the body, we wanted
more insulin, so we had to go on tablets.
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Tell me about changing to insulin.
In the year 2002, Dr Wright recommended
me to go on insulin, and he arranged for me to go on a day‘s tuition - to
a day‘s training. This training consisted of testing and injecting - there
was two sessions. First of all we started off with testing. We had the test
meter demonstrated to us, by means of strip, which we used to put a drop of
blood on, and they put the test strip in the meter, which indicated level
of sugar in the body. And we carried on for half a day session on that one,
and the rest of the half a day session was involved in injecting. And we
were told to use… I was told to use the NovoMix, which was being nominated
to me by the nurse in charge, and she says "you‘ll remain on NovoMix
all the time", and so I was injecting NovoMix. But she told us how to
inject NovoMix by means of the needle, and this was a very simple operation.
It consists of just like a pen type NovoMix insulin and with a needle at the
end of it, so all you do is just apply that four millimetre needle into the
skin and press the top of the pen, which injected the insulin into the body.
And we had a whole afternoon session on this, and at the end of the day we
were able to do testing and injecting.
How did you feel about moving
onto insulin, after twelve years, I think, on tablets?
It was a bit difficult in the
beginning. I experienced a lot of lumps coming on my thighs as I injected,
but slowly I started getting used to it, and even the lumps didn‘t appear
any more, because I used to apply effectively. We were told to apply at the
lower abdomen and the thighs - upper thighs - which was simple enough, and
it‘s pain-free anyway. There‘s hardly any pain felt when you‘re injecting.
And have you felt more freedom
over your diet since changing to insulin?
Yes, in fact we are much more
at ease now at controlling our level of insulin. When the sugar level is
high after testing then we can apply, increase the level of insulin, which
brings it down and keeps us more healthy and fit. And it gives us much more
freedom than the tablets and the diet, yeah.
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Have you had any health problems associated with diabetes?
Yes. In 1989, Dr Wright diagnosed
that I had hypertension, and that lasted me to the present day, although it
has been well in control; I haven‘t really suffered due to that.
What were you advised - tablets,
exercise?
I was put on a mild tablet for
that, and I‘m still taking tablets now.
What other health problems have
you had?
Yes, I had problems with my eyesight,
and I had a laser treatment in 1995. This was the first laser treatment I
had, and it cured the problem then, and I haven‘t had much problem with my
eyesight since then.
I remember you mentioned that
you‘d had eyesight problems before your diabetes was diagnosed in the first
place. Did diet alone actually cure those early problems with eyesight?
Yes, it did, in fact. My eyesight
improved because I was going to the eye hospital every six months. And after
the laser treatment, it has been okay; I haven‘t had much of a problem with
my eyesight. In fact, I was told… the last treatment I went for, the last
check I went for, they told me to come back after one year. They say "you‘ve
got no problems at all with your eyesight".
But just going back to when you
were first diagnosed, you said you had eyesight problems. How were those
improved?
It was improved with diet only.
In fact, it improved very well, because I was able to resume my proper duties
without glasses or anything, so it did help a lot.
What other health problems have
you had?
Yes, in 2001 Dr Wright told me
that I had problems with my kidneys. It was quite serious, so he booked me
a place in the hospital, and I went for treatment under one of the consultants
at the hospital. Whilst searching for problems with the kidneys, they found
out that I had some cysts on the liver as well, so there was two functions
happening at the same time involving two consultants. While I was in the
hospital, I had to go on to the catheter for the liver treatment, and I remain
on the catheter for about roughly three months. And then they found out that
I had cysts on my liver, and after doing extensive research work on it they
found that it was benign. And so during this period, while I was being...
while the search was being made for cancerous cells, the consultant, who was
dealing with me at the time, damaged the catheter, and as a result, my body
was filled up with water. And at that time, fortunately, I was in the hospital
waiting for a test when this happened, and so they rushed me to the emergency
ward. And I don‘t know what happened to me after that because I collapsed,
and when I came about, which was about two
o‘clock in the morning, I was told that I nearly died, because the water went
right from my head to abdomen and lower part of the body. And this was a
nasty experience, and therefore my wife and the family who gathered all around
thinking that I have passed away. Fortunately this didn‘t happen, and they
managed to survive - pull me out of it. And then I was treated for kidney
for some time, and this treatment went on for roughly two or three months,
involving about two months stay in hospital.
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I do not blame the consultant in charge, because he was just doing his work.
He was looking around for cysts, for cancerous cells in the liver, and it
just accidentally happened that he must have punctured a catheter. So, no,
I do not blame the consultant at all. I think it was in the course of work
he was doing.
You didn‘t think of suing then?
No, not really; I didn‘t think
of suing them at all. I thought it was a natural sort of action, and it‘s
one of those things which just happens in a routine check like that, especially
involving two consultants at the same time.
For a matter of historical record,
you were in hospital for, as you say, two or three months in 2001. What was
a National Health Service hospital like in that year?
I was treated very well in the
hospitals. The nurses, the doctors and the consultants, they were very nice
to me, and they attended to every complaint I had regarding my health and
gave me all the medication that was necessary. They made sure that I took
the medication which I was on before going into hospital, and so I was treated
very well, I should say, generally by all concerned.
Did you get the impression that
there were enough nurses?
Yes, the nursing service was
very good, I thought. You know, they were always attending to us for whatever
reason we wanted. Even if they were out of the room, we could ring the bell
and they would come and serve us for whatever we wanted. So, the service
was very good, I should say. Yes, each time I went into hospital for some
time, they used to straight away put me on to drip feed, which involved getting
me on to a needle. And the drip feed was on a little iron pole, and it used
to feed into the arm. And it was quite an experience, really. Sometimes,
in the beginning, it was painful, but towards the end, you just get used to
it and accept it as a natural cause.
And the nurses supervised that
well, did they?
The nurses supervised that very
well. In fact, they kept on asking me if I had any pains, and I used to say
"no, it‘s okay", and the needle was okay. And if it did pain, they
used to sort of take the plaster off and re-put another lot of dressing on,
which helped a lot. Used to be very, very useful, and they asked for my welfare
each time they passed - "how are you?" - and the atmosphere, generally,
was very pleasant, yes.
You‘ve had a fair bit to do with
the National Health Service since you were first diagnosed twenty four, twenty
five years ago. What changes do you feel that you‘ve seen in hospitals over
those years?
Yes, I‘ve been in hospital, I
think… I‘ve had very good treatment; the staff were very good. I believe
there has been a lot of talk of decline in the services, but personally I
haven‘t experienced that. There has been shortage of nurses, and nurses have
been recruited from abroad even, now, to make sure that there are enough nurses.
But personally, I didn‘t feel any problems at all with the staff at all.
They were very, very good, and very kind and very attentive.
And as an outpatient, have you
noticed any changes in waiting times?
The waiting time has come down
a bit, really. The last time I went in for my eye test, they were virtually
on time; just a few minutes late, but you don‘t mind that. During the course
of treatment, from application of eye drops to seeing the consultant was a
bit delayed sometimes, but they tried their best to keep to the times.
And you reckon you had to wait
longer in the past?
I did have to wait, on some occasions,
a bit longer, but most of the time, as I say, it has been on time.
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And have you had any experience of the Health Service unconnected with diabetes?
Yes, I‘ve had problems with arthritis
in both knees. Since my doctor recommended me to the orthopaedic hospital,
it was a good five or six months delay before I got an appointment. And when
I went in for the first appointment, I was given an injection with steroid
- a fluid injected in my knees, and it has been quite good since then; the
pain has been much more less. But the next appointment was November last
year, which I went to, but unfortunately the consultant wasn‘t available.
So, my next appointment is in May of this year, which is quite a duration,
really, between each appointments.
You mentioned that your wife
had also developed diabetes. Can you talk about her experience of diabetes?
My wife was diagnosed in ‘93
as diabetic. She hasn‘t suffered as badly as I have. She is on two tablets
at the moment: Actos and Glibenese. She takes these tablets twice a day.
And has she tried controlling
it with diet as well?
She did try diet-only, but it
didn‘t... it wasn‘t very effective, so they put her on medication - tablets
- straight away, virtually; just about two or three months afterwards.
And did they attribute her diabetes
to heredity or to her lifestyle?
I think hers is due to her lifestyle,
because her parents weren‘t diabetic and none of her families are diabetic.
So, I think hers was just off experience, I suppose; just due to the style
of her... her lifestyle, I should say.
Is there an element of embarrassment
with type two diabetes, that people might feel it was your fault?
No. In fact, I didn‘t feel any
problems with being diabetic. At work, nobody really mentioned anything about
diabetes. I used to ask my boss if I could get away for a test, for a check-up
every so often, every three months, and he used to cooperate and say "yes,
by all means". And I never had any, in fact, adverse experience with
being diabetic.
There‘s been quite a lot of publicity,
though, recently given to type two diabetes, and suggesting that people are
eating too much sugar. Have you noticed people reacting differently when
you tell them you‘ve got diabetes?
Yes. I think what the doctor
told me was that it‘s not too much sugar that causes type two diabetes, but
it‘s when the pancreas stops releasing enough insulin that causes the problem.
So, really, I think having sugar levels and sweet foods might contribute towards
early diabetes, but I don‘t think it‘s a direct factor, really.
But have other people blamed
you?
Yes, they used to make a few
jokes. They used to say "oh, it‘s ‘good living‘ here that you‘ve got
the diabetes", and I used to say "no, I don‘t think it is very good
living"! But they used to say to me "now, have you been eating
too much sweets and having too much rich food?", and I used to say "no,
not really". I used to be having sort of average amount of sweets and
average amount of sugar, like anybody else. But yes, the comment has been
made in the past.
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Have you always told everybody that you‘ve got diabetes?
Yes. Whenever anybody asks me
if I had any problems - health problems - I used to tell them I‘m diabetic.
I didn‘t feel ashamed of it. I thought, you know, it‘s just a normal thing
that one suffers with, and there‘s nothing to hide about this complaint.
Are there any differences in
attitude to illness in England compared with Fiji?
Yes. In Fiji, people treat diabetes as normal illness,
and, in fact, they are more sympathetic with one who‘s suffering from diabetes.
They won‘t sort of criticise or look down on it that you‘re a diabetic, but
they would be more sympathetic, whereas over here, people don‘t worry at all,
you know, they just take it as a norm, really. It‘s one that one tends to
suffer, and it‘s just a normal complaint.
So, because over here they take
it as a normal complaint, you mean people are less sympathetic?
Yes, they are. I suppose they
are less sympathetic since this is much more sort of busier and people sort
of mind their own businesses, and they‘re not concerned much about other people‘s
problems, so they just take it as norm. Whereas in Fiji, now, they will be more
sympathetic.
Do you feel that your parents,
as diabetics, got more sympathy than you‘ve received from the general public?
Yes, they did, in fact. They
were aware of my father being a diabetic, and if he went somewhere, they‘d
treat him accordingly. They‘ll give him things which he should be eating,
and avoid food which he shouldn‘t have been taking.
Would you have received such
good treatment for your diabetes if you‘d stayed in Fiji?
No, definitely not, because the
treatment over there is very poor. The hospitals are not very good, not well-equipped,
and there aren‘t any consultants… very few - I should say - very few consultants
there, and they are overloaded with work. And the medication isn‘t there,
and so I believe the treatment over here is first class and you get treated
very well for whatever complaint you have.
What is your state of health
regarding diabetes now?
Since I‘ve gone onto insulin,
I‘ve had one or two hypo attacks. This hasn‘t been very serious, because
I could see it coming. And when you feel the symptoms coming, I‘ve been taking
precautions and keeping sweets in my pocket - sugar lumps - and avoided serious
hypo attack.
How do you know they‘re coming?
Yes, it shows that one‘s getting
dizzy and fainting and sweating, and these are mostly indication of hypo.
And I‘ve had these attacks a few times, but, as I say, I‘ve avoided... Once
I went out shopping in Sainsbury‘s, and as I was holding the railing I was
going to reel over. And fortunately I had a sweet in my pocket, and I held
onto the railing, took the sweet, and I avoided collapsing there. So yes,
it does affects me in bad ways sometimes.
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So, what keeps you going?
Well, we have a very strong faith.
We‘re Catholic - Roman Catholics. All my children are practising Catholics,
we are practising Catholics, and we believe in God, and we believe in his
cures as well. And that gives us hope for carrying on in life, and carrying
on in spite of suffering.
Would you say that you have suffered?
I should say I have suffered
only when my kidneys failed for a while, and apart from that, I haven‘t really
suffered badly, I should say. You know, I‘ve been able to carry on working,
doing domestic duties after my retirement, and helping my wife around the
house. And I like to move about all day long, rather than sit down and watch
television and passing time that way. I would like to be active, yes.
What advice would you give to
somebody newly diagnosed with type two diabetes?
I would say make sure that you
have the right treatment and control your diet, and try and live life as normal.
Be active and don‘t give in to it.
You said try and find the right
medical treatment. Do you have much to do with the medical profession now?
Yes, they normally call me every
six months to check my diabetes, to see how I‘m progressing. The last few
times I‘ve gone there, they‘ve told me that I was doing very well; I‘m controlling
very well. And I‘ve kept well - in fact, I have given up alcohol, which I
used to enjoy. And so it‘s really self-control and making sure that you are
protective, and carry on life as normal.
Would your life have been different
in any way if you hadn‘t had diabetes?
Yes, I was very active. I used
to do all sorts of ‘do it yourself‘ jobs around the house and help other people.
We‘ve been helping the elderly of the Church. We‘ve been very active in the
Church: visiting people, visiting sick and housebound, and that kept us really
busy and very active, really, for the last few years that I‘ve spent here.
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Yes, diabetes hasn‘t prevented me from doing my normal chores.
And how do you see the future?
I see future as good, for time
being, and we tend to lead a normal life, as we ought to. My children, I‘m
concerned about, as we‘re both now diabetic, so we have to advise them and
make sure that they don‘t experience the same problems as we have. They have
been doing well so far. They‘ve all had their degrees and are in good jobs,
and I hope they maintain a good standard of life, involving good diet and
healthy life, which they are doing at the moment, with our advice.
And have you had any thoughts
of returning to Fiji?
Yes, I had dreams of returning
to Fiji.
I thought when I retire the first thing I‘ll do is pack up and go back home,
but it never materialised, because my wife was ill, I became ill. And then
we had all our children here well-established, and also we have grandchildren
now - seven grandchildren. And we just can‘t pluck up the courage to go back,
leaving them all here.
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